How to spot a scam: 4 signs, and 5 habits that stop them

Scams change their stories every season, and AI has removed the spelling mistakes. The moves underneath don't change. Learn these and you'll spot most scams in seconds.

The 4 signs

  1. They pretend to be someone you trust. A government agency, your bank, a delivery company, your boss, a grandchild. Caller ID, logos and email names can all be faked, and AI can copy a voice or a face.
  2. There's a problem or a prize. You owe money, your account is locked, a package is stuck, someone you love is in trouble, or you've won something.
  3. They pressure you to act now. Pay today, stay on the line, don't tell anyone. Urgency is there to stop you from thinking or checking.
  4. They tell you to pay in a specific way. Gift cards, crypto, a Bitcoin ATM, a wire transfer, a payment app or cash handed to a courier. No real agency or business insists on these.

5 habits that stop almost every scam

  1. Don't use the link, number or code in a message you didn't expect. Open the app or type the website yourself, or call the number on your card or bill.
  2. Never share a verification code, password or PIN with anyone who contacts you.
  3. Slow down. Anyone who won't let you hang up and call back is a scammer.
  4. Talk to someone you trust before you pay. Scammers ask for secrecy because a second opinion stops them.
  5. Agree on a family code word, so a voice on the phone has to prove who it is.
What AI changed: perfect grammar, your name, your town and your boss's name are easy for scammers to fake now. A familiar voice or face on a call isn't proof either. Judge a message by what it asks you to do, not by how real it looks.

Practice on 10 real-world examples

If you already paid or shared information

  1. Contact the company you used to pay (your bank, card company, gift card company, payment app or wire service) right away and ask them to reverse the payment.
  2. If you shared a password, change it now and turn on two-factor authentication.
  3. If you gave out your Social Security number or other ID details, go to IdentityTheft.gov for a recovery plan.
  4. Report it to the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. For scams that happened online, you can also report to the FBI at ic3.gov.

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Learn the scams one by one

Unpaid toll texts

A text says you owe a small toll and must pay today through a link, or face fees.

Delivery texts and emails

A message says a package can't be delivered until you confirm your address or pay a small fee.

Fake bank fraud alerts

A text or call from your “bank's fraud team” about a charge, then a request for a code or to move your money.

Government impostors

Someone claiming to be from a government agency says you're in trouble and must pay or “verify” now.

Missed jury duty threats

A caller claiming to be a sheriff's deputy or court officer says you missed jury duty and must pay to avoid arrest.

Family emergencies and voice clones

A panicked call from a “grandchild” or other relative who needs money right now, and asks you to keep it secret.

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